I don't think it is. I think it's a lot more literal than it may seem. As in the music video the girl he's about to propose to the girl that he loves only to find her with another man. He then says goodbye to himself as a "gentleman" and "relationship man" and turns into a typical "player" to escape the emotional drama he's been consumed with. Throughout the breakup she's tried to make it seem as if it's all his fault when all he did was love her.
I don't think it is. I think it's a lot more literal than it may seem. As in the music video the girl he's about to propose to the girl that he loves only to find her with another man. He then says goodbye to himself as a "gentleman" and "relationship man" and turns into a typical "player" to escape the emotional drama he's been consumed with. Throughout the breakup she's tried to make it seem as if it's all his fault when all he did was love her.