I think this song is about a guy who is in an ongoing conflict with his significant other over something she did in the past.
He had a big argument over this, and doesn't want to bring it up again, but sometimes he must liberate himself of the cold he feels inside by probing and dissecting the event.
In doing so he freezes their relationship, they cannot grow because all he can think about is her past. She doesn't understand why he keeps bringing it up, and feels assaulted and defensive.
I think this song is about a guy who is in an ongoing conflict with his significant other over something she did in the past.
He had a big argument over this, and doesn't want to bring it up again, but sometimes he must liberate himself of the cold he feels inside by probing and dissecting the event.
In doing so he freezes their relationship, they cannot grow because all he can think about is her past. She doesn't understand why he keeps bringing it up, and feels assaulted and defensive.
That's my take on it anyhow.
I think you may be exactly right.
I think you may be exactly right.