While, yeah, the song is referencing oral sex, there's totally more to it in my opinion. It seems to be about a woman in an open relationship who's unsure if she really likes this openness or if she wouldn't prefer a more exclusive relationship. From the verses it seems like her guy struggles with showing his feelings for her in ways other than jealousy, stupid games(probably involving other girls), and sex. And even though she likes the sex, the jealousy and games are really getting to her.
Which leads to the chorus. I feel like she's saying he's forced her into this position in which she's the girl that's supposed to keep him in check, and she's tired of it, but she wants that sex so much that she can't help but wait on him to come give it to her even though she knows that inevitably means he'll make her his "referee" again.
While, yeah, the song is referencing oral sex, there's totally more to it in my opinion. It seems to be about a woman in an open relationship who's unsure if she really likes this openness or if she wouldn't prefer a more exclusive relationship. From the verses it seems like her guy struggles with showing his feelings for her in ways other than jealousy, stupid games(probably involving other girls), and sex. And even though she likes the sex, the jealousy and games are really getting to her.
Which leads to the chorus. I feel like she's saying he's forced her into this position in which she's the girl that's supposed to keep him in check, and she's tired of it, but she wants that sex so much that she can't help but wait on him to come give it to her even though she knows that inevitably means he'll make her his "referee" again.