I personally think it's about him finding someone who is as messed up as him, and them trying to put their lives back together, together. But at the same time, it's sort of the realisation that being messed up isn't a bad thing (displayed in the line 'And self help might help when it makes us laugh'), and that everyone is messed up in their own little way, and that no one can ever be perfect, and that's ok as long as no one is suffering for it (the lines about making up with parents, and how she USED to disrespect herself by living a bad life)
I personally think it's about him finding someone who is as messed up as him, and them trying to put their lives back together, together. But at the same time, it's sort of the realisation that being messed up isn't a bad thing (displayed in the line 'And self help might help when it makes us laugh'), and that everyone is messed up in their own little way, and that no one can ever be perfect, and that's ok as long as no one is suffering for it (the lines about making up with parents, and how she USED to disrespect herself by living a bad life)