this is like an epitome of my love life. back in college there was this guy, i had special feelings for him, and i knew he had too. we grew closer, but i suddenly vanished out of the scene. i left him hangin' there, with no explanations... maybe because i was afraid that i will fall deeper in love. he was persistent, but i disappeared out of sight, i never gave him chance to talk to me or whatever communication there is. what could've hurt him is because we were friends, then developed into something closer, then i disappeared. without saying the words, the most important words, the crucial ones. i kept it all inside. because i don't want it to hurt so much when we say goodbye. let me share this:
One grows distant from another, not because of hatred, not because of indifference, but because of fear. There's the fear that the hurt gets greater as one gets closer; a recognition of the tendency to fall deeply, and consequently drown in a quicksand of stupid irrationalities. Sometimes, what drives one away is not the absence of emotion, but the overwhelming presence of it
this is like an epitome of my love life. back in college there was this guy, i had special feelings for him, and i knew he had too. we grew closer, but i suddenly vanished out of the scene. i left him hangin' there, with no explanations... maybe because i was afraid that i will fall deeper in love. he was persistent, but i disappeared out of sight, i never gave him chance to talk to me or whatever communication there is. what could've hurt him is because we were friends, then developed into something closer, then i disappeared. without saying the words, the most important words, the crucial ones. i kept it all inside. because i don't want it to hurt so much when we say goodbye. let me share this:
One grows distant from another, not because of hatred, not because of indifference, but because of fear. There's the fear that the hurt gets greater as one gets closer; a recognition of the tendency to fall deeply, and consequently drown in a quicksand of stupid irrationalities. Sometimes, what drives one away is not the absence of emotion, but the overwhelming presence of it