Give Judy My Notice Lyrics

Lyric discussion by lolgaber 

Cover art for Give Judy My Notice lyrics by Ben Folds

Well personally I can completely relate to this song. The Lyrics seem to be about ending a relationship with someone who has borderline personality disorder. lyrics seem to fit well with dsm iv's symptoms and I can see this having just gotten out of a relationship with someone who is borderline. Very painful and many stick around far too long in these relationships. Idealization of you being super man (I come running when you want me here) then dramatic swing to you being supposedly horrible (and when you want me to I disappear). That's a never ending cycle that you convince yourself will stop but eventually realize wont happen. Borderlines will make you so happy but then it shatters and you realize you're loved by default.

Wow! I've just had a revelation. thanks for the insight @lolgaber. I looked up this song because I was listening to it and I just had the realisation that Ben had perfectly described the stuff that has been going through my mind for the last 3 weeks since I broke up with a beautiful but broken person. I had never heard of borderline personality disorder, but having read a bit about it, I think there is a good chance that my Judy has that condition. It make it heaps easier to understand.