Lyric discussion by psydecheaux 

Cover art for All To All lyrics by Broken Social Scene

to me it describes the kind of break up where both of you were never really in sync, as in one of you wanted to break up, the other one didn't, and you switched back and forth. ultimately you break up and then when you reflect on it, it's like you put sooo much into it just to arrive at that ultimatum where it was now or never.