When You're Older Lyrics

Lyric discussion by Birdie10 

Cover art for When You're Older lyrics by Kate Earl

To me this song is to my 8 year old daughter...the guilt I have over finally leaving her cheating father and how one day she will grow up and understand why I couldn't stay with him anymore.

How she'd often catch me crying at the thought of her being affected by our divorce--and having her comfort me without fully understanding why I was sad.

It's about how I know her headstrong personality will keep her from ending up where I was; manipulated for years by a man I was afraid to leave.

And about being nervous about my entire life taking a different direction, but also hopeful for a new beginning.

I know that's not what the artist intended, but that's what this song means to me. I'm overcome with emotion every time I hear it!

That is such a powerful statement. I'm so glad you had the courage to leave. As Kate herself is a single mother, I'm sure her pain can resonate when it comes to separation.

This song, I find, is a message from the artist to her son. Her son is growing up in a new world, a different kind of world, an unordinary world... Things will be different for him, for sure. But she has all her love for him. She wants a better life for him, than what she may have experienced herself.

It's such a beautiful and honest ballad....