Lyric discussion by pinoydcfan46 

Cover art for Hell on the Throat lyrics by Dashboard Confessional

i think it's about something he's been hiding from his fans way back around 2002. He's thinking of some bad reactions from his fans from this.

the line... "Why it�s hard to belong to a girl or a song in the case of a selfish believer"

it's pretty obvious. but hey, the guy is awesome, and "it" doesn't matter. He's making amazing songs for us to enjoy and relate to.