Songs Of Love (Divine Comedy cover) Lyrics

Lyric discussion by popfan 

Cover art for Songs Of Love (Divine Comedy cover) lyrics by Ben Folds

Yes, a very accurate commentary on the two types of people when it comes to "love". But the lines that interest me most are:

Fate doesn't hang on a wrong or right choice Fortune depends on the tone of your voice

Besides being humorous, it might have a deeper meaning. I think it's saying that success depends on what you want to achieve. Do you consider meaningless sex/relationships successful? Or do you think there should be something more?