Lyric discussion by silverush 

Cover art for Silverfuck lyrics by Smashing Pumpkins, The

i think this is about a man that is really angry (explains the aggressiveness of the song) because he feels like he is not good enough for his lover but at the same time he doesnt really care about her, even though he regrets that later on:

i hear your winter: i feel your indifference I hear your rain: i hear you crying Ive failed your summer ways: Ive failed to make you happy (summer relates to happiness) And i feel no pain: I dont give a fuck

i hear what you want and i feel that way: she wants to be happy but hates him now and wants him to die (for example) and he (depressed) also wants to die.

I hear you fade away: i see you go away (they broke up) And I hear you crawl: he knows she is sad
I gave my life away: he feels that he deserves something better and i feel no pain(x3): he, again, doesnt give a damn. and i feel your pain: he's starting to regret for what he has done

And she was my lover so sweet: he is remembering her And she was my angel: he felt safe around her
And what I've recovered of me: what he has learned of this relationship I put into a box underneath my bed: he will use it in a future relationship

When you lie in your bed: when you think you are safe
And you lie to yourself: you are in danger Lie Lie (note: in this part of the lyrics he is remembering the bad things about his lover and for the emphasis on the word lie its probable that it refers to her cheating him.)

Bang bang you're dead hole in your head(x4): you are now dead to me

and the final chorus is just to fill the empty spaces....

My Interpretation