Say I Won't (Recognize) Lyrics

Lyric discussion by Brian Fitz 

Cover art for Say I Won't (Recognize) lyrics by Gaslight Anthem, The

Brian says that no songs are about his wife. (though if i had to guess i would say virginia is.) i know mary is his grandmother

he says in one of his songs, "call every girl we ever met maria, but I only love virginia's heart" so yes to his wife and no to mary bein his grandmother..?