It is about life. We all go through it. He is telling him he IS changing and that he NEEDS to change. He is beginning to see things differently, he could stay if he wanted but will be unhappy until he accepts it. It is not ME changing you brother, trust me I know, I too was once just like you. I was one. Maturity makes us see things through our own eyes and we assign values to those things for ourselves.
It is about life. We all go through it. He is telling him he IS changing and that he NEEDS to change. He is beginning to see things differently, he could stay if he wanted but will be unhappy until he accepts it. It is not ME changing you brother, trust me I know, I too was once just like you. I was one. Maturity makes us see things through our own eyes and we assign values to those things for ourselves.