Lyric discussion by fets57 

Cover art for 20/20 lyrics by Alanis Morissette

I think this song is about her getting into a realationship and knowing that it wouldn't work out and she stays anyway. It ends and now she's mad at herself. She tried to leave hence "I would have kept my boundaries set risked abondment and stood by that. All this talk of boundaries , abondement, remorse, going slow, fountain of regret. She rushed into something and it did not work..Torturous hindsight. she looks back and just cringes. If u keep kicking urself in the ass ur going to have a really BIG wound..that's my advice.