I think it is pretty obvious this song is about making a mistake and losing someone special as result. Now years later your still missing that person, still regretting what happened and still a mess from it. To relate to this song I don't even think a person had to do or say something to mess the friendship/relationship up but more lack of words that messed it up.
"It's hard to say I held my tongue
It's hard to say if only
Since you've been gone I'm not the same"
Sort of that if only I hadn't held my tongue and said what I needed to say, things could have turned out different. But now that time has passed it's to hard to say the things now.
I think it is pretty obvious this song is about making a mistake and losing someone special as result. Now years later your still missing that person, still regretting what happened and still a mess from it. To relate to this song I don't even think a person had to do or say something to mess the friendship/relationship up but more lack of words that messed it up.
"It's hard to say I held my tongue It's hard to say if only Since you've been gone I'm not the same"
Sort of that if only I hadn't held my tongue and said what I needed to say, things could have turned out different. But now that time has passed it's to hard to say the things now.