i know this guy. he is physically very weak. i asked him to get on a scale & he weighs 60lbs. girls beat him up & bully him & he gets laughed at by everyone, even his family. hes got no friends & is therefore terrified beyond death of people, especially girls. and this as he called it "infinitely strong fear" sent him into a downward spiral & now he's an anxiety frill shy guy. he doesnt have a life. hes very sedentary, just sits in front of the cpu all day. doesnt go out cuz hes too scared. usually...
i know this guy. he is physically very weak. i asked him to get on a scale & he weighs 60lbs. girls beat him up & bully him & he gets laughed at by everyone, even his family. hes got no friends & is therefore terrified beyond death of people, especially girls. and this as he called it "infinitely strong fear" sent him into a downward spiral & now he's an anxiety frill shy guy. he doesnt have a life. hes very sedentary, just sits in front of the cpu all day. doesnt go out cuz hes too scared. usually therapy, psych, or exposure eventually helps. not for him though. he doesnt eat, doesnt go to the bathroom when he has to. he'll wait HOURS or DAYS before going for #2 but then it gets 2 hard & he cant get it out so he has to try again some other time. for #1, he'll just wait minutes or hours. this is so because he wants to commit suicide as he feels the world would be better without him. now he has visions & urges to kill his family members and then himself so they can be with him in death. how sad & tragic for this poor poor guy.
i overheard this in therapy & have since been there for him, trying to help him but i think im making it worse. but he likes being around me, im added to his visions & urges. but i understand his reason(s) & am therefore not angry, sad, nor judgmental.
you tell it, sista! Gimme a shy-guy anyday, not a "Roughneck man me no want none a dat" and "no fly guy" for me.
i know this guy. he is physically very weak. i asked him to get on a scale & he weighs 60lbs. girls beat him up & bully him & he gets laughed at by everyone, even his family. hes got no friends & is therefore terrified beyond death of people, especially girls. and this as he called it "infinitely strong fear" sent him into a downward spiral & now he's an anxiety frill shy guy. he doesnt have a life. hes very sedentary, just sits in front of the cpu all day. doesnt go out cuz hes too scared. usually...
i know this guy. he is physically very weak. i asked him to get on a scale & he weighs 60lbs. girls beat him up & bully him & he gets laughed at by everyone, even his family. hes got no friends & is therefore terrified beyond death of people, especially girls. and this as he called it "infinitely strong fear" sent him into a downward spiral & now he's an anxiety frill shy guy. he doesnt have a life. hes very sedentary, just sits in front of the cpu all day. doesnt go out cuz hes too scared. usually therapy, psych, or exposure eventually helps. not for him though. he doesnt eat, doesnt go to the bathroom when he has to. he'll wait HOURS or DAYS before going for #2 but then it gets 2 hard & he cant get it out so he has to try again some other time. for #1, he'll just wait minutes or hours. this is so because he wants to commit suicide as he feels the world would be better without him. now he has visions & urges to kill his family members and then himself so they can be with him in death. how sad & tragic for this poor poor guy.
i overheard this in therapy & have since been there for him, trying to help him but i think im making it worse. but he likes being around me, im added to his visions & urges. but i understand his reason(s) & am therefore not angry, sad, nor judgmental.