Lyric discussion by Malumultimus 

I always thought it was

"The way she had to have the color of her hair"

I can't even fool myself into hearing "acted and" over "had to have." I guess it could be the accent, but...

I TOTALLY agree with you, man. For 40 years I've wanted to ask the writer of this song what the lyric really is, because to say "had to have the color of her hair" just accentuates the angst this guy is feeling. I mean, she just HAD to make it that color, that tortured me when she left because I loved it so much.

What accent?

Listen to youtube.com/watch

"let me tell you about the way she looks [pause] the way she acts [pause] and the color of her hair."

roricka: "had to have forever !!!!" ?????

Wtf, you're turning a question of fact into a damned religious crusade. STOP THAT. That's what 5 year olds do, not grown adults.

An error occured.