Lyric discussion by ladygreg 

Cover art for Soldier lyrics by Angus and Julia Stone

@gimmeblues, that's an interesting take on the song,but I interpret it differently, at a more literal level. A girl (Julia's character) is so afraid and insecure, and meets this boy who she is infatuated with, but the fear again raises its ugly head. I think overall it's a happy message though, with him inspiring her to take action, andd control of her life.