Lyric discussion by IceMouse 

Cover art for Do You Love Me? lyrics by Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds

I don't see it as from a rapist.

The song, to me, is about a man and woman who are in love with each other(To the point of getting married, or at least wanting to), but there are relationship tensions here and there which mostly(In his eyes, anyways) come from her while he tries to be perfect to her in every way he is able to. As the song goes on he becomes more submissive and she takes more liberties with her domination over him and eventually he loses her. He isn't surprised and she isn't remorseful