This song is about Merger Wishes, struggling against co-dependency, and mourning of the loss of a friendship.
I totally agree with clairelittler.
But, as far as, "there is no love lost that can't be found again, my dear friend"... I take that to mean:
The alpha friend has no appreciation for the efforts and meaning the narrator is placing into the relationship. If they aren't going to appreciate the effort, the narrator informs the recipient that, "Hey, just because i can't form a meaningful and open relationship with you doesn't mean that i'm incapable of forming that level of intimate relationship with another person.
So, "there's no love lost that i can find again", even if that means in another person.
The reason the narrator is hesitant to sever the friendship is that he honestly cares about the other person. And, there's sometimes fear that with the loss of that friendship, there will be a subsequent loss of an aspect of your personality, especially if they greatly contributed to your emotion development or well being.
Either way it sucks and is unfortunate, but you've gotta move on to those who are willing to invest as much in a relationship as you.
This song is about Merger Wishes, struggling against co-dependency, and mourning of the loss of a friendship.
I totally agree with clairelittler.
But, as far as, "there is no love lost that can't be found again, my dear friend"... I take that to mean:
The alpha friend has no appreciation for the efforts and meaning the narrator is placing into the relationship. If they aren't going to appreciate the effort, the narrator informs the recipient that, "Hey, just because i can't form a meaningful and open relationship with you doesn't mean that i'm incapable of forming that level of intimate relationship with another person.
So, "there's no love lost that i can find again", even if that means in another person.
The reason the narrator is hesitant to sever the friendship is that he honestly cares about the other person. And, there's sometimes fear that with the loss of that friendship, there will be a subsequent loss of an aspect of your personality, especially if they greatly contributed to your emotion development or well being.
Either way it sucks and is unfortunate, but you've gotta move on to those who are willing to invest as much in a relationship as you.