Lyric discussion by bocmaxima 

Cover art for Lolita lyrics by Throw Me The Statue

Lolita is a general term coined by the book and the later, more popular film. There are, of course, going to be connections in any instance of a "lolita," but it's not necessarily a direct reference to that story. I think he's speaking more from personal experience, where a young girl, likely underage (hence the "she was nineteen"/"rearrange" line), is clearly interested in him but he must maintain a platonic relationship due to societal norms although, underneath it all, he really does feel a strong sexual attraction to her. BTW, does the girl in the video not look exactly like a younger Denise Richards??