here's what i think - she created an illusion of his personality by his appearance - she jumped in with expectations, setting herself up for major disappointment because he wasn't what she had imagined, in turn, making him feel bad about himself because he fell in love. she is "always in pursuit of the perfect people", always expecting, having high standards, and he wonders why she has to make it so complicated in this way, instead of spontaneous and beautiful.
here's what i think - she created an illusion of his personality by his appearance - she jumped in with expectations, setting herself up for major disappointment because he wasn't what she had imagined, in turn, making him feel bad about himself because he fell in love. she is "always in pursuit of the perfect people", always expecting, having high standards, and he wonders why she has to make it so complicated in this way, instead of spontaneous and beautiful.