Most people who have not experienced them underestimate the kinds of social anxieties the rejected feel. Loneliness can literally consume one's mind and give a feeling of utter hopelessness. Not the hopelessness you get when you realize your birthday present has arrived; the hopelessness you get when you realize all around you have forgotten your birthday.
"And will I ever find someone who understands my mind? I don’t think so. It’s just a sea of faces and vacant stares and they will never have to be in this place again."
The lonely want so bad to become a part of those who are socially warm that extreme jealousy kicks in. This can not be equated to. It is simply the worst form of emotional angst--knowing there is almost no chance of finding someone to share your pain, which increases even more just due to this fact.
"I have your number, but I won’t call it; I fear rejection more than being alone."
Some people have been hurt by others to a point at which they, even in their despair due to lack of contact with the outside world, reject anyone entering into their life. I've been told finding true friendship after rejection is like "Stepping on nails until you find one that feels good."
"Maybe I’m dying? Over dramatic, but that’s what happens when you have too much time to think about the end."
The rejected don't have much contact with the outside world and thus have no choice but to dwell on their own despair.
"I will try to regain passion, but I’m faltering. I will try to overcome this, but I’m overwhelmed again."
It sounds good on paper, but regaining what is lost through rejection and loneliness is impossible without having someone who truly understands. We cannot give up on these people; though they appear callous and distant, the shy reveal (as shown above; this is describing a friend of mine's feelings, not my own) to us things we would never have seen before. They're no different than us, but it's the fault of those who reject them that they appear as such.
No one may read this. But to those who do: don't ignore these people. We need them just as much as they need us.
I'm currently studying in Japan and my social life is the best its ever been.... on the outside.
However, no matter how much fun I'm having, inside there's a terrified, overwhelmed young girl with Aspergers' trying to get out.
I'm currently studying in Japan and my social life is the best its ever been.... on the outside.
However, no matter how much fun I'm having, inside there's a terrified, overwhelmed young girl with Aspergers' trying to get out.
I try my utmost to reach out to people and even the person here who I feel most comfortable confiding in - in my mind at least - has no clue how traumatic every social event is for me and a lot of the time I feel like I'm just outside of the group and not able to break...
I try my utmost to reach out to people and even the person here who I feel most comfortable confiding in - in my mind at least - has no clue how traumatic every social event is for me and a lot of the time I feel like I'm just outside of the group and not able to break through...
Sorry, rant over. Anyway, this song always makes me cry and I don't think I've ever found any songs like this
Ever since my first relationship and lack of friends because I don't interact enough, this song basically explains how I've felt all this time and my feelings are my own. In a forever deadlock and I feel very numb but I try not to act that way, I hide my true feelings since a lot of people don't like it so I listen to others more.
Ever since my first relationship and lack of friends because I don't interact enough, this song basically explains how I've felt all this time and my feelings are my own. In a forever deadlock and I feel very numb but I try not to act that way, I hide my true feelings since a lot of people don't like it so I listen to others more.
Your supposed to be able to regain that passion and break out again but it's been 4 years or more, I still feel how this song explains it & your words. All I can...
Your supposed to be able to regain that passion and break out again but it's been 4 years or more, I still feel how this song explains it & your words. All I can do is suppress it on my own and remain quiet & think about everything not grasping things it comes back randomly. I can live with it but I don't interact much due to this or think I deserve friends? I like how you explained it here though. I've gone through it on my own to survive, still am feeling it now. Suicide's obviously not a thought, not like that. I'm just wandering, sounds emo but it's not really like that now it's much more than that. Thanks silentexclamation you explained it well, you do seem to understand it.
In a sense I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees this. As someone with severe social anxiety I feel this every day of my life. It's nice to know you're not alone.
In a sense I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees this. As someone with severe social anxiety I feel this every day of my life. It's nice to know you're not alone.
Personally I love the "lovely Day" part of the song. The hopeful aspect of overcoming and never having to feel like this again.
Personally I love the "lovely Day" part of the song. The hopeful aspect of overcoming and never having to feel like this again.
Unfortunately I know exactly what this is about.
Most people who have not experienced them underestimate the kinds of social anxieties the rejected feel. Loneliness can literally consume one's mind and give a feeling of utter hopelessness. Not the hopelessness you get when you realize your birthday present has arrived; the hopelessness you get when you realize all around you have forgotten your birthday.
"And will I ever find someone who understands my mind? I don’t think so. It’s just a sea of faces and vacant stares and they will never have to be in this place again."
The lonely want so bad to become a part of those who are socially warm that extreme jealousy kicks in. This can not be equated to. It is simply the worst form of emotional angst--knowing there is almost no chance of finding someone to share your pain, which increases even more just due to this fact.
"I have your number, but I won’t call it; I fear rejection more than being alone."
Some people have been hurt by others to a point at which they, even in their despair due to lack of contact with the outside world, reject anyone entering into their life. I've been told finding true friendship after rejection is like "Stepping on nails until you find one that feels good."
"Maybe I’m dying? Over dramatic, but that’s what happens when you have too much time to think about the end."
The rejected don't have much contact with the outside world and thus have no choice but to dwell on their own despair.
"I will try to regain passion, but I’m faltering. I will try to overcome this, but I’m overwhelmed again."
It sounds good on paper, but regaining what is lost through rejection and loneliness is impossible without having someone who truly understands. We cannot give up on these people; though they appear callous and distant, the shy reveal (as shown above; this is describing a friend of mine's feelings, not my own) to us things we would never have seen before. They're no different than us, but it's the fault of those who reject them that they appear as such.
No one may read this. But to those who do: don't ignore these people. We need them just as much as they need us.
Beautiful interpretation.
Beautiful interpretation.
I'm currently studying in Japan and my social life is the best its ever been.... on the outside. However, no matter how much fun I'm having, inside there's a terrified, overwhelmed young girl with Aspergers' trying to get out.
I'm currently studying in Japan and my social life is the best its ever been.... on the outside. However, no matter how much fun I'm having, inside there's a terrified, overwhelmed young girl with Aspergers' trying to get out.
I try my utmost to reach out to people and even the person here who I feel most comfortable confiding in - in my mind at least - has no clue how traumatic every social event is for me and a lot of the time I feel like I'm just outside of the group and not able to break...
I try my utmost to reach out to people and even the person here who I feel most comfortable confiding in - in my mind at least - has no clue how traumatic every social event is for me and a lot of the time I feel like I'm just outside of the group and not able to break through...
Sorry, rant over. Anyway, this song always makes me cry and I don't think I've ever found any songs like this
Ever since my first relationship and lack of friends because I don't interact enough, this song basically explains how I've felt all this time and my feelings are my own. In a forever deadlock and I feel very numb but I try not to act that way, I hide my true feelings since a lot of people don't like it so I listen to others more.
Ever since my first relationship and lack of friends because I don't interact enough, this song basically explains how I've felt all this time and my feelings are my own. In a forever deadlock and I feel very numb but I try not to act that way, I hide my true feelings since a lot of people don't like it so I listen to others more.
Your supposed to be able to regain that passion and break out again but it's been 4 years or more, I still feel how this song explains it & your words. All I can...
Your supposed to be able to regain that passion and break out again but it's been 4 years or more, I still feel how this song explains it & your words. All I can do is suppress it on my own and remain quiet & think about everything not grasping things it comes back randomly. I can live with it but I don't interact much due to this or think I deserve friends? I like how you explained it here though. I've gone through it on my own to survive, still am feeling it now. Suicide's obviously not a thought, not like that. I'm just wandering, sounds emo but it's not really like that now it's much more than that. Thanks silentexclamation you explained it well, you do seem to understand it.
In a sense I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees this. As someone with severe social anxiety I feel this every day of my life. It's nice to know you're not alone.
In a sense I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees this. As someone with severe social anxiety I feel this every day of my life. It's nice to know you're not alone.
Personally I love the "lovely Day" part of the song. The hopeful aspect of overcoming and never having to feel like this again.
Personally I love the "lovely Day" part of the song. The hopeful aspect of overcoming and never having to feel like this again.