Lyric discussion by Stevekriz 

Cover art for City Escape lyrics by Dear Hunter, The

This further strengthens my argument that the flame may refer to the father. As if the child is asking "why don't I have a father like the other kids?" in the opening line. Just to go on record I believe in personal interpretation and taking from a song what it means to you, I just enjoy seeing everyone's opinions and offering new viepoints as well :)