Surround Yourself Lyrics

Lyric discussion by x__crossway 

Cover art for Surround Yourself lyrics by Graduate, The

I understand that the general meaning of this song is that the guy is worried if the girl would leave him, and is wondering if she would stay with him if she saw other possibilities. But I don't understand the several lines below...

"Lay down right now, lett's go around Who claims defeat It's never hard for me You're impossible to beat I must have been so, so, I don't know Confused or scared to share me Surround yourself Surround, surround, surround yourself in me"

"Lay down right now, let's go around Who claims defeat It's never hard for me You're impossible to beat I must have been so, so, I don't know Confused or scared to share me Surround yourself Surround, surround, surround yourself in me"

In arguments/fight/wutever. It is easy for him when it comes to winning/losing... She is impossible to defeat (ie he always gives in)

HE must have said something to her making her want to leave... in retrospect he is saying "I must have been so so I don't know. Confused or scared to share me"...