Lyric discussion by TheAmazingSaint 

Cover art for Silently lyrics by Blonde Redhead

"I realize now you're not to be blamed my love You didn't choose your name my love"

Reminds me of Romeo and Juliet when Juliet asks "Wherefore art thou Romeo?" Juliet asks why Romeo has to be Romeo and come from her rival family and not someone with less drama. Might only be a small reference to the play and not exactly central to the song or nothing at all, but you never know.