The film from the early nineteen hundreds (the silent/MUTE era) entitled Kiss Or Kill is probably the earliest use of the phrase:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0009265/
Though since then the phrase has been used in the song We're Desperate by the band X, used for a title of yet another film, also as the title of a song by Himsa.
"kiss or kill"
The film from the early nineteen hundreds (the silent/MUTE era) entitled Kiss Or Kill is probably the earliest use of the phrase: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0009265/
Though since then the phrase has been used in the song We're Desperate by the band X, used for a title of yet another film, also as the title of a song by Himsa.