Lyric discussion by xsammix 

Cover art for Inconsolable lyrics by Backstreet Boys

inconsolable means no matter what anyone does you can't be comforted, ie. when someone dies.

and isnt it 'everything i cant let go'?

but i do like this song alot. it kinda appeals to me at the moment, especially the bit about holding everything in and not being able to let go.

in-con-sol-a-ble[in-kuhn-soh-luh-buhl] —adjective not consolable; that cannot be comforted; disconsolate: She was inconsolable when her son died.