He's saying that you have to ignore what your oppressor says to you or else you'll create your own misery "holding on to what they say creates a path to our own destruction." Sounds like he did whatever a girl wanted him to do but the relationship was ultimately doomed, so he finally let it go.
He's saying that you have to ignore what your oppressor says to you or else you'll create your own misery "holding on to what they say creates a path to our own destruction." Sounds like he did whatever a girl wanted him to do but the relationship was ultimately doomed, so he finally let it go.