Hm, could this song be about a phenomenon I've witnessed with men, where if you talk to them and just be friendly they'll assume you're hitting on them. Then when it becomes apparent that you're not interested in that way they get angry because you were "leading them on"? The lines " I am sorry I am so nice to you" and "You are not the victim/though you'd like to make it that way" seem to fit that.
Hm, could this song be about a phenomenon I've witnessed with men, where if you talk to them and just be friendly they'll assume you're hitting on them. Then when it becomes apparent that you're not interested in that way they get angry because you were "leading them on"? The lines " I am sorry I am so nice to you" and "You are not the victim/though you'd like to make it that way" seem to fit that.