This song is about when someone's pressuring you to do something, like maybe getting into a more comitted relationship with them (or something like that...how would I know, I've never been in love). Deep down you know it's the right thing to do, but you're just not ready for it yet, so you lash out at whoever's pressuring you, telling them to quit "feeling sorry for yourself", that you're "just roamin' for the moment", and that "you can't go forcing something if it's just not right"--meaning that they should just drop the idea of being more committed and all that, because you don't think it's the right thing to do at the moment. Basically, you're torn: half of you wants to remain the way you are with the person, not very serious, but the other half just knows it's only a matter of time until you're ready for it; the person pressuring you just has to wait for "when you come around".
This song is about when someone's pressuring you to do something, like maybe getting into a more comitted relationship with them (or something like that...how would I know, I've never been in love). Deep down you know it's the right thing to do, but you're just not ready for it yet, so you lash out at whoever's pressuring you, telling them to quit "feeling sorry for yourself", that you're "just roamin' for the moment", and that "you can't go forcing something if it's just not right"--meaning that they should just drop the idea of being more committed and all that, because you don't think it's the right thing to do at the moment. Basically, you're torn: half of you wants to remain the way you are with the person, not very serious, but the other half just knows it's only a matter of time until you're ready for it; the person pressuring you just has to wait for "when you come around".