Simply co-dependence. They each play mindgames, drive each other up each other's proverbial walls, whether it be when arguing or during the reconciliation! ^_~
It's all ups and downs, on-again and off-again. She runs away when he gets close and possibly vice-versa but it's more likely she plays the guilt-trip games with one-sided screaming matches and tears when she doesn't get her way. She's complex, damaged (She Will Be Loved) and just impossible to get along with. She's only happy when they're getting back together and the period before their breaking-up so he does these things subconsciously to make her happy with him again. It's just that the breaking-up part is in between. He seems to forget this fact and instead blames their location on their situation as it's something tangible rather than the games they play with each others' minds. shrug
Well, that's what I hear. She's insecure, he's insecure, they inflict their self-proposed inadequacies upon each other, despising and resenting the other for the exact same thing they're doing to each other. Round and around, like a washing machine. Vicious cycle, yet they're stuck in it. Must get out!
Simply co-dependence. They each play mindgames, drive each other up each other's proverbial walls, whether it be when arguing or during the reconciliation! ^_~
It's all ups and downs, on-again and off-again. She runs away when he gets close and possibly vice-versa but it's more likely she plays the guilt-trip games with one-sided screaming matches and tears when she doesn't get her way. She's complex, damaged (She Will Be Loved) and just impossible to get along with. She's only happy when they're getting back together and the period before their breaking-up so he does these things subconsciously to make her happy with him again. It's just that the breaking-up part is in between. He seems to forget this fact and instead blames their location on their situation as it's something tangible rather than the games they play with each others' minds. shrug
Well, that's what I hear. She's insecure, he's insecure, they inflict their self-proposed inadequacies upon each other, despising and resenting the other for the exact same thing they're doing to each other. Round and around, like a washing machine. Vicious cycle, yet they're stuck in it. Must get out!
T.