Lyric discussion by Schwab 

Cover art for Very Loud lyrics by Shout Out Louds

I think that he's saying that it's difficult to have a relationship with his girlfriend because they're too different, etc. No matter how bad he wants to be with her.

however, i dont understand when he says "i really like it now" i suppose he means that he's happy they're not together becuase it'sreally all to much trouble?