Choking The Cherry Lyrics

Lyric discussion by gnosis 

Cover art for Choking The Cherry lyrics by Poe

This song has me more confused than most. My best guess is that it is about sexual frustration or more specifically her frustration and ambivalance about losing her virginity to some specific guy. I say this in the context of the song "not a virgin anymore" and some interview material that indicates she lost her virginity later than most. Still this idea doesn't quite fit with all the lyrics.