graceland is most likely a reference to a place where there is no pain and everyone is loved there. He is searching for "Graceland", a place where he can't be hurt after losing his wife. Looking for a place with his son where they won't be judged but will be accepted and loved. Making reference to the girl in NYC shows that he is not the only one who has been "bounced" on and that he is not the only one looking for this "graceland" and that the open window in your heart is a reference to everyone seeing the devistation brought to you by this breakup but in "graceland" it doesn't matter, because you will be received there. A place that is in a sense "perfect".
graceland is most likely a reference to a place where there is no pain and everyone is loved there. He is searching for "Graceland", a place where he can't be hurt after losing his wife. Looking for a place with his son where they won't be judged but will be accepted and loved. Making reference to the girl in NYC shows that he is not the only one who has been "bounced" on and that he is not the only one looking for this "graceland" and that the open window in your heart is a reference to everyone seeing the devistation brought to you by this breakup but in "graceland" it doesn't matter, because you will be received there. A place that is in a sense "perfect".