How to Be Dead Lyrics

Lyric discussion by sabi 

Cover art for How to Be Dead lyrics by Snow Patrol

i think "You're a big boy now so let's not talk about growth" is the only line that the girl says in reply to "Coz both my shoulders are heavy. From the weight of us both" and then the guy is frustrated that she hasn't listened to anything else, and didn't understand what he was saying at all