Lyric discussion by darkanj3l 

Cover art for Is It Me lyrics by Stacie Orrico

I feel every word of this song right now. I guess it's about what every women may go through at one stage of their lives, just sick of meeting Mr WRONG over and over again.

Sick of the insecurities, "Who were you with? and where were you at?...Because I'm so confused and insecure", disappointments, "Maybe I'm longin' for it more than I should be expecting All the standards that I'm settin Unrealistically I'm gettin " and the break ups at the end, "Until we break up then I'm back to the Same spot".

Because of all this the persona concludes that every guy that she meets "turns out to be the same" and begins to question if she is to blame for the problems in her love life. At the end of the song the persona found her answer to the problem. She realised that the past relationships never worked out because of her insecurities, her unwillingness to really commite, and being too independent.

It's a sad song to me because most women do this. Some women thinks TOO MUCH, "Tryin to analyze every angle, situation Tryin to find an explanation" when they're in a relationship. We shouldn't be so paranoid and insecure all the time.