Lyric discussion by mochajas 

Cover art for A Better Son/Daughter lyrics by Rilo Kiley

mockingsmile - Thanks, I didn't see your post 'til now.

kaleidoscopeeyes8 - Bipolar disorder is often first misdiagnosed as depression, since bipolar people during depressive episodes present with the same symptoms as depressed people. The suicide rate for bipolar disorder is actually significantly worse than for major depression. You should read the parts about depression in Kay Jamison's "An Unquiet Mind."