An interesting spin on the subject is that the word "secondary" is a term in the polyamorous community. A primary partner is your priority, your main boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband, and a secondary partner is the partner who you have "on the side", who is not your main squeeze. From a polyamorous view, this song could be about what it's like to be the secondary, the one that isn't as important as the "real" boyfriend, and how much that can hurt.
An interesting spin on the subject is that the word "secondary" is a term in the polyamorous community. A primary partner is your priority, your main boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband, and a secondary partner is the partner who you have "on the side", who is not your main squeeze. From a polyamorous view, this song could be about what it's like to be the secondary, the one that isn't as important as the "real" boyfriend, and how much that can hurt.
this is it
this is it