Lyric discussion by tklinesdecline 

Cover art for Swimmers lyrics by Broken Social Scene

The guy's moving too so slow for her. She's doing all the work in the relationship. He's chillin' in the background only there for the good aspects about the relationship(physicality and her presence so he wouldn't have to be alone). The day never comes when he finally mans up and does his part in the relationship. There is some sexual connotation in this song, which makes it soo good. There can be two interpretations.