Lyric discussion by sl8r 

Cover art for In The Car lyrics by Barenaked Ladies

"We grouped excuses Not to be alone anymore"

isnt it "we groped for excuses"

i think its about him and a girl basically using each other 2 explore sex for the 1st time, not necessarily full sex but just being naively curious.

"we were looking for ourselves but found each other"

maybe the 'experimenting' led to a genuine interest as a person? but for some reason they couldnt do anything about it