i don't think the song means that she lost a guy because she cheated on him. it actually sounds like she's blaming herself after a guy has cheated on her and then left her for someone else:
"You got what you deserved
Hope you're happy now
'Cause everytime I think of her with you
It's killing me
Inside..."
When she says "I hate myself for losing you
I'm seeing it all so clear
I hate myself for losing you
What do you do when you look in the mirror
And staring at you is why he's not here?" it sounds like she is mad at herself--
like, if only she could have been prettier, smarter, or whatever, maybe he wouldn't have gone astray from their relationship. She feels like it's her fault for not being a better gf; thus, she hates herself for losing him.
Even though you know you're better off without a cheating partner, there's still that lingering thought in your head that you should have done things differently, or that you could have prevented things from happening if only you had done this or that. And even after the fact, it's still hard to let go and move on... nobody really wants to be alone, right?
i don't think the song means that she lost a guy because she cheated on him. it actually sounds like she's blaming herself after a guy has cheated on her and then left her for someone else:
"You got what you deserved Hope you're happy now 'Cause everytime I think of her with you It's killing me Inside..."
When she says "I hate myself for losing you I'm seeing it all so clear I hate myself for losing you What do you do when you look in the mirror And staring at you is why he's not here?" it sounds like she is mad at herself--
like, if only she could have been prettier, smarter, or whatever, maybe he wouldn't have gone astray from their relationship. She feels like it's her fault for not being a better gf; thus, she hates herself for losing him.
Even though you know you're better off without a cheating partner, there's still that lingering thought in your head that you should have done things differently, or that you could have prevented things from happening if only you had done this or that. And even after the fact, it's still hard to let go and move on... nobody really wants to be alone, right?
anyway, it's a great song. :-)