Deciding to stop being the object of love (the one that waits to get chosen, the wallflower) and to be the subject.
SOmething happened... somewhere the speaker changed/ was changed/ had a watershed moment & realized that s/he could/ needed to/ wanted to have agency in relationships.
It might not even be about "going after" someone, but about making a decision to be a part -OF- the relationship rather than just being -IN- it...
Deciding to stop being the object of love (the one that waits to get chosen, the wallflower) and to be the subject.
SOmething happened... somewhere the speaker changed/ was changed/ had a watershed moment & realized that s/he could/ needed to/ wanted to have agency in relationships.
It might not even be about "going after" someone, but about making a decision to be a part -OF- the relationship rather than just being -IN- it...