Lyric discussion by tmckee34 

Cover art for Wallflower lyrics by Better Than Ezra

i think the song is about the girl that wants you to think she's cool, the one who downplays her natural beauty and charm for the artsy, dressed in black fad life that went around in the early 90's. she is in the bar to elevate her status and works to be that cool person that is too ideal of a life.