Better Man Lyrics

Lyric discussion by Bengal Tiger 

Cover art for Better Man lyrics by Pearl Jam

not the clearest of PJ songs.

i too think its about his mom and dad.

she loved him, but he didnt really reciprocate. came home late every night - not necessarily abused her.

"she dreams in colour......." i feeel more than the word "red" whats important here is the "colour" bit. like she dreams/imagines/longs for a very colourful married life, as different from this one sided relationship. "Red" is used to drive home that her dreams are of a "bright" warm and vibrant sort, unlike the cold, dark realities of her married life. however she fails to (1) find that "betterman" who will make all those colourful dreams come true and (2) muster enough courage and resolve to tell her husband on the face that she's had enough and now wants to walk away. she did however love this man once (so she cant so easily leave him this way and go) but now that love is waned, so she "lies and says she's in love with him".