I think the song is pretty much telling them to move on after the suicide.
That they need to stop guilting themselves, because, blaming themselves for his suicide is actually blaming his suicide for everything that's wrong in their lives.
It works this way:
If they continue to blame themselves, they're racked with guilt. Then whenever they fall through on their real responsibilities, the guilt-depression becomes an excuse.
It boils down to: they need to stop feeling guilty and sorry for themselves.
I pretty much agree with Kinger.
I think the song is pretty much telling them to move on after the suicide. That they need to stop guilting themselves, because, blaming themselves for his suicide is actually blaming his suicide for everything that's wrong in their lives.
It works this way: If they continue to blame themselves, they're racked with guilt. Then whenever they fall through on their real responsibilities, the guilt-depression becomes an excuse.
It boils down to: they need to stop feeling guilty and sorry for themselves.