I agree with kellymac, I see as this person facing off a ghost. Not an actual aparition per se, but the ghost of a loved one lost. This person is coming to grips with the pain of losing someone and can't help but put a little blame in that lost one because wherever the person is, she experiences the painful memories and dreams.
The emotion is so wonderful in this song. This to me is the powerful line in the song:
"i've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone
but though you're still with me
i've been alone all along"
Because the person is trying so hard to come to grips and it is such torture because she experiences the worst of both worlds. Not only does the person feel the pain of those wonderful memories that haunt her, but she also realizes she is alone. Like a glass barrier is between the two lovers and they can see each other, but can never experience the fullness of their love. God, life's not fair sometimes.
Once against Amy Lee and Ben Moody have a way of making you feel something you haven't though about before, with their twist on what its like to be immortal. That a person passed on makes such an impact on the other person's life, that they suffer for it. Usually immortality is seens as something very positive.
But I believe this song tries in a way to be positive. I'm not saying it's bad. For it talks about the pain everyone must endure in losing someone. The risk we all take for love. But, I do wish for this (and when this happens I will probably swallow my words), because it will mean I've met someone who truly defined me. So much, they live on inside of me.
@chino69 That's not positive at all! It is a bad thing, because love is the cause of suffering, and everything, including that love is temporary. They don't live on inside of you! If they do, then they are truly dead, because they're not really there... you've been alone all along. There is not a single person who truly defines you, you merely let them decide who you are, because you can't stand to be alone, so you never got to define you. That and because that love is the cause of suffering. You don't really wish for this... that is...
@chino69 That's not positive at all! It is a bad thing, because love is the cause of suffering, and everything, including that love is temporary. They don't live on inside of you! If they do, then they are truly dead, because they're not really there... you've been alone all along. There is not a single person who truly defines you, you merely let them decide who you are, because you can't stand to be alone, so you never got to define you. That and because that love is the cause of suffering. You don't really wish for this... that is not a risk anybody should have to take in love. It shouldn't have to be this painful, for the dead to leave the living forever and not be there for them ever again.
I agree with kellymac, I see as this person facing off a ghost. Not an actual aparition per se, but the ghost of a loved one lost. This person is coming to grips with the pain of losing someone and can't help but put a little blame in that lost one because wherever the person is, she experiences the painful memories and dreams.
The emotion is so wonderful in this song. This to me is the powerful line in the song: "i've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone but though you're still with me i've been alone all along" Because the person is trying so hard to come to grips and it is such torture because she experiences the worst of both worlds. Not only does the person feel the pain of those wonderful memories that haunt her, but she also realizes she is alone. Like a glass barrier is between the two lovers and they can see each other, but can never experience the fullness of their love. God, life's not fair sometimes.
Once against Amy Lee and Ben Moody have a way of making you feel something you haven't though about before, with their twist on what its like to be immortal. That a person passed on makes such an impact on the other person's life, that they suffer for it. Usually immortality is seens as something very positive.
But I believe this song tries in a way to be positive. I'm not saying it's bad. For it talks about the pain everyone must endure in losing someone. The risk we all take for love. But, I do wish for this (and when this happens I will probably swallow my words), because it will mean I've met someone who truly defined me. So much, they live on inside of me.
^This^ WOW, you took the words right out of my mouth. So very well said. I applaud you, and this song. It is a truly wonderful song.
^This^ WOW, you took the words right out of my mouth. So very well said. I applaud you, and this song. It is a truly wonderful song.
@chino69 That's not positive at all! It is a bad thing, because love is the cause of suffering, and everything, including that love is temporary. They don't live on inside of you! If they do, then they are truly dead, because they're not really there... you've been alone all along. There is not a single person who truly defines you, you merely let them decide who you are, because you can't stand to be alone, so you never got to define you. That and because that love is the cause of suffering. You don't really wish for this... that is...
@chino69 That's not positive at all! It is a bad thing, because love is the cause of suffering, and everything, including that love is temporary. They don't live on inside of you! If they do, then they are truly dead, because they're not really there... you've been alone all along. There is not a single person who truly defines you, you merely let them decide who you are, because you can't stand to be alone, so you never got to define you. That and because that love is the cause of suffering. You don't really wish for this... that is not a risk anybody should have to take in love. It shouldn't have to be this painful, for the dead to leave the living forever and not be there for them ever again.