Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
In a world of uncertainty
The night sky told us all to be patient
But when the ground started shaking
I wondered for how long
There's a place that I'd rather be
There's a voice deep inside of me
Saying the progress we are making
Is not progress at all
Into a world of promises, whoa
Is where we let ourselves been led
We built the bridges
We now sleep under
We frame the door ways
We may not pass through
The very same roads
That we now wander
Who once you pass us by on
We paved with our bare hands
Paved with our bare hands
A black cloud hovers over me
Without all this guilt I feel naked
Something about the way it
Wraps it's arms around
White snow covers everything
An angel watches over me
Praying, she asks me for a favor
Catch me if I fall
A rush of blood straight to the head, whoa
I wonder what this could have been
We built the bridges
We now sleep under
We frame the door ways
We may not pass through
The very same roads
That we now wander
Who once you pass us by on
We paved with our bare hands
Paved with our bare hands
Hey!
No I never meant to hurt you
No I never meant to do you wrong
I stood waiting while the man said move along
We lay the tracks down
But now they rotted
Like a runaway train
We brace for the crash
We were in love once
Have you forgotten?
Like a runaway train
Bearing down upon a gap
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
(Built from their hypocrisy)
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
(Now we brace for the crash)
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
(Built from their hypocrisy)
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
And underneath the shadows we now live
The night sky told us all to be patient
But when the ground started shaking
I wondered for how long
There's a place that I'd rather be
There's a voice deep inside of me
Saying the progress we are making
Is not progress at all
Into a world of promises, whoa
Is where we let ourselves been led
We built the bridges
We now sleep under
We frame the door ways
We may not pass through
The very same roads
That we now wander
Who once you pass us by on
We paved with our bare hands
Paved with our bare hands
A black cloud hovers over me
Without all this guilt I feel naked
Something about the way it
Wraps it's arms around
White snow covers everything
An angel watches over me
Praying, she asks me for a favor
Catch me if I fall
A rush of blood straight to the head, whoa
I wonder what this could have been
We built the bridges
We now sleep under
We frame the door ways
We may not pass through
The very same roads
That we now wander
Who once you pass us by on
We paved with our bare hands
Paved with our bare hands
Hey!
No I never meant to hurt you
No I never meant to do you wrong
I stood waiting while the man said move along
We lay the tracks down
But now they rotted
Like a runaway train
We brace for the crash
We were in love once
Have you forgotten?
Like a runaway train
Bearing down upon a gap
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
(Built from their hypocrisy)
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
(Now we brace for the crash)
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
(Built from their hypocrisy)
We built the bridges (brace for the crash)
And underneath the shadows we now live
Lyrics submitted by larryssman7
Bridges Lyrics as written by Joseph Principe Brandon Barnes
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
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