This place is a hole, and I don't want to go.
I wish we could stay here forever alone.
This time that we waste, but I still love your taste.
Don't let him take my place, don't just sit there.
Sometimes I wish you would leave me.
Well I'm not sick of you yet, is this as good as it gets,
I'll just say it, or I could slip into you,
Its so easy to come back into you.

I stand for awhile, and waited for words,
Seemed to not hurt and struggled to try.
My tongue's turning black, but I'll take you back.
You're still the best more or less, I guess.
I guess.

Don't you leave me,
Well I'm not sick of you yet,
Is that as good as it gets,
I'll just say it, or I could slip into you,
Its so easy to come back into you.
It hurts me to say that it hurts me to stay.
And it might be alright if you go.
It hurts me to say that I want you to stay,
But it might be alright if you go.

So leave me, well I'm not sick of you yet,
Is that as good as it gets.
I'll just try to hide it, or I could slip into you,
It's so easy to come back into you.
Sometimes I think that the bitter in you,
And the quitter in me,
Is the bitter in you and the quitter in me.
The bitter in you, and the quitter in me,
Is the bitter in you and the quitter in me.
The bitter in you, and the quitter in me,
Is the bitter in you and the quitter in me,
Is better than the both of us.


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    "this place is a hole, but I don't wanna go" He knows that he will get nowhere in his addiction, but he can't just give it up.

    "I wish we could stay here forever alone" He wants to be with the numbness that comes with the use of heroin without his concipus telling him it's bad.

    "this time that we waste but I still love your taste" He knows that he isn't going to get anywhere, but he loves of too much to stop of let to of his drug.

    "Don't let him take my place don't just sit there" He wants someone to helpl him to get over his drug addiction an eating disorder "sometimes I wish you would leave me, woaa, I'm not sick of you yet" Sometimes he wants his addiction or eating disorder to just go away, but then doubts and realizes he still wants it.

    "I stared for a while and waited for words seen but not heard and struggle to try" -he was waiting for something to help him get through it, but nothing ever came. He was struggling to get through it.

    "and my tounges turning black but I'll tale you back" -his addiction is killing him but he's still not willing to give it up yet.

    "you're still the best more of less I guess" -the drug will still always make him feel better, no matter what the amount is.

    "it hurts me to say that it hurts me to stay and it might be alright if you go" It bothers him that he can't live without it, but he knows it would be better without it,

    "it hurts me to say that I want you to stay but it might be alright if you go" It bothers him that he needs the drug or he can't get over his eating disorder but it would be ok if it didn't go away.

    "Sometimes I think that the bitter in you and the quitter in me is the bitter in you and the quitter in me.... Is bigger than the both of us" -the after feeling of vein high is the bitter, and that feeling makes him wanna quit smoking/shooting (whichever he was doing) and that it is bigger than his addiction and bigger than himself.

    "I'll just hide it" He'll hide his addiction or eating disorder from everyone

    "I stared for a while and waited for words, seen but not heard" He waited for the words to come to ask for help,

    Hermthewormon May 16, 2010   Link

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