If It Means a Lot to You (feat. Sierra Kusterbeck) Lyrics

Hey darling, I hope you're good tonight
And I know you don't feel right when I'm leaving
Yeah, I want it but no, I don't need it
Tell me something sweet to get me by
'Cause I can't come back home 'til they're singin'

La, la la la, la la la
'Til everyone is singin'

If you can wait 'til I get home (I get home)
Then I swear to you that we can make this last
(La la la)
If you can wait 'til I get home (I get home)
Then I swear come tomorrow, this will all be in our past
It might be for the best

And hey sweetie, but I need you here tonight
And I know that you don't wanna be leaving
Yeah, you want it but I can't help it
I just feel complete when you're by my side
But I know you can't come home 'til they're singin'

La, la la la, la la la
'Til everyone is singin'
La, la la la, la la la

If you can wait 'til I get home
Then I swear to you that we can make this last
(La la la)
If you can wait 'til I get home
Then I swear come tomorrow, this will all be in our past
It might be for the best

You know you can't give me what I need
And even though you mean so much to me
I can't wait through everything
Is this really happening?
I swear I'll never be happy again
And don't you dare say we can just be friends
I'm not some boy that you can sway
We knew it'd happen eventually

La, la la la, la la la
Now everybody's singin'
La, la la la, la la la
Now everybody's singin'
La, la la la, la la la (If you can wait 'til I get home)
Now everybody's singin'
La, la la la, la la la (Then I swear we can make this last)
Now everybody's singin'

La, la la la, la la la
If you can wait 'til I get home
Now everybody's singin' la, la la la, la la la
Then I swear we can make this last
Now everybody's singin' la
Song Info
Copyright
Lyrics © Mothership Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Writer
Thomas H. Jr. Denney, Jeremy Wade Mckinnon, Alexander Thomas Shelnutt, Neil S. Westfall, Joshua Steven Woodard
Duration
4:03
Submitted by
fallacyofdualism On Jan 15, 2009
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I think this can applied towards any relationship. (That's actually one thing I love about ADTR. Their songs allow you to drift and think of your own meaning for the song.) This can be someone in the military, away at school, traveling for a job, touring (in this case), etc...

"I know you can’t give me what I need And even though you mean so much to me I can't wait through everything"

I think this means that she is going to move on, even though, she really just wants to be with him.

"Is this really happening?"

And this Jeremy saying, "Come on? Just stay with me... Do you know what this will do to me?"

"I swear I’ll never be happy again And don’t you dare say we can just be friends I’m not some boy that you can sway We knew it’d happen eventually"

And this is Jeremy saying, "Ok fine, do what you want. Just know I'm not going to be around anymore if you follow through with this."

Thanks for posting this. I couldn't figure out what kind of distance they were relating to: military, regular, etc. But you're right; you can apply this to almost anything.

i figured it relates more to the touring....because hes saying that he cant come home til everybody is singing lalala meaning until he gains fans and they are all singing lalala he cant come home....i personally dont c how that relates to the military or anything of the sort....

tkj-- My first thought when I heard this song was that it was related to the military, honestly. If you think about it, you can kinda relate it the La's meaning peace... They can't come home until the war is over and there is peace. Then again, it could just be me.

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Pretty straightforward song. Here's my (kinda detailed) view on it:

"Hey darling, I hope you're good tonight And I know you don't feel right when I'm leaving Yeah, I want it, but no, I don't need it Tell me something sweet to get me by" The guy is probably in a band and is leaving his girlfriend to go on tour maybe?

"'Cause I can't come back home 'til they're singing La, la la la, la la la 'Til everyone is singing" He won't come back until his band is succesful and their fans are singing for them.

"If you can wait 'til I get home Then I swear to you that we can make this last If you can wait 'til I get home Then I swear come tomorrow this will all be in our past Well it might be for the best" Pretty obvious. As soon as the guy makes it with his band, he's gonna get with her. lol

"Hey sweetie, I need you here tonight And I know that you don't want to be leaving me Yeah, you want it, but I can't help that I just feel complete when you're by my side But I know you can't come home 'til they're singing La, la la la, la la la 'Til everyone is singing La, la la la, la la la" The girl telling him how she feels about the whole thing. Seems that right now she's kinda okay with him leaving.

"I know you can't give me what I need And even though you mean so much to me I can't wait through everything" Eventually, the girl is fed up with all that.

"Is this really happening? I swear I'll never be happy again And don't you dare say we can just be friends I'm not some boy that you can sway" Guy is desperate, kinda tries to convince her to stay with him.

"We knew it'd happen eventually" Still they both knew it would end this way.

And in the end, when the crowd is singing, that means he finally made it with his band but it's over between them. and stuff. :3

My Interpretation

Pretty accurate. Although initially I assumed it was about someone in the armed- forces but this make more sense :D

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I probably feel this way simply because it applies to my life, but it reminds me of going off to college. You leave behind the one special person, swearing you will be back soon and often. However, as time goes on, coming home isn't as simple as you thought it would be. It sounds to me like she is saying I can't continue to watch you leave, and I can't continue to dream of you being here next to me.

It feels like a few days after a huge fight and the night before he's coming home when she suddenly realized she can't do this any more. Life is taking them in two separate directions, no matter how badly they just want to be together. He swears he can't go on without her and realizes they could never just be friends, but she has herself to take care of and enough faith in him to know that he will be okay.

The truth of it is, they both knew when he went off, it wouldn't work. It hardly ever does. I think the end is saying "We've done what's right, and in some crazy, messed up way, it's brought harmony back into our lives and the lives of everyone we know."

You nailed it. This is exactly how I feel about this song, I've been through it...

Well, while I see your meaning as correct, things could be a little different.

My current Boyfriend is going to go into his second year of college. We were dating the spring & summer before he left. At the time he was 18 & I was 16. His parents talked him out of our relationship by telling him I would be likely to cheat on him. So when he left I was crushed because he's the first boy that I dated that I FELL for. However, I moved on.. Then, January of this year, after months of NO communication, he came...

@Alaskaa This is actually my story

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Damn, I was just about to post this lyric too... Beat me to it... This song features Sierra Kusterbeck of VersaEmerge.

To me this song's another one about touring. Girlfriend back home, can't take the touring lifestyle of her boyfriend, Breaks up with him etc.

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this song was able to keep me and my girlfriend together because it made us realize that our relationship was important. And i'm still with her! that's the best part.

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soo fucking good.

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I love this song! :) I really think this could just be about a long-distance relationship and it's hard for them. Either long-distance, a band touring, or even the armed forces.

It's deep like Ke$ha :D

There's no such thing as long term relationships. I believe you mean pen pals. I tired of my French one back in middle school. Goodnight Bella. Enjoy your life.

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"‘Cause I can’t come back home ‘til they’re singing La, la la la, la la la" Obviously he can't come back home till his band has made it.

The whole song he's asking her to wait for him, and she says "I can't wait through everything"

The song ends with "Now everybody's singing La." Symbolising that he's come home, because he couldn't come home until everyone was singing La.

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i love versaemerge, and i love adtr.

amazing song.

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WOW fits my life perfectly right now.

 
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